Leave America behind? why Europe and European men may be the best option for black women.

With all the latest back and forth over black women being unrepresented when racial/social justices abound. not to mention the studies by non black men that black women are the least attractive. and the constants images in the media that black women are fat, ghetto, bald-headed dark (as if that is bad) disgusting pigs that need to be eradicated off the face of the earth. When I tried to date out in America, all i got was racist, perverted, over sexual white American men who wanted to experiment. So what's a black woman to do? well. The only way I can explain it is to break it down.


Now first off. I'm a black woman who has LIVED and traveled all over world. I know the difference between cultures and differnt white men. there are websites that are out there that promote White men has the holy grail and use black women to sell books of misinformation. White American men are NOT the be all end all in dating out and here is why in my opinion.

- Some white men want bw because their race do not want them. they are not good looking and have nothing going on for them, fat, and just plain ol oogoly!

-Some are fetish maniacs! they think the best sex to have is to have with a black woman. But it stops there. That is all they want and nothing more.

-Some like black women to a point. but hate black males. bw have their reasons. But its suspect as to why they hate bm so much when bm have no power whatsoever.

-They are very preoccupied if the black women they date has dated wm before.

-They are not interested to learn about your culture.

So with that being said. What is the point??? Europe is the place to be and I'm going to tell you why.

When I lived there. I saw a great deal of interracial couples bw/ww and they were very Afrocentric looking. Dark skin. Some with locs. Some with braids, some with no hair at all! where would you find such acceptance?? European men are much mature than their American counterpart. They are neater and they are more fit. Just look at any world cup soccer team! arrant they more good looking!!! they are very romantic, loving and they have no problem helping out in the house. And in the bed room they are NOT selfish!!!! There are hundreds of black women who have left the states to join their love across the seas. Many are leading wonderful lives in Europe where crime is lower, quality of life is better, life expectancy is higher, and education and health are virtually free. Who can ask for anything more??? I wish I could show you these women who are living this life. But in respect of privacy, I cannot. Join FB groups for black women and euro men. Some show up. You find one. You find them all. Living in places like Switzerland, Germany, Sweden, Holland. There is a place for you! You can start by getting a Tagged account. Start looking there. You will be surprised!

I know to leave the country is a VERY drastic change. It takes a lot of money and overall resources to make a transition. But do your research! there are schooling programs you can take overseas. Make friends! you never know who you may meet across the pond that can give you information on the lay of the land. Get your own hustle. Create a business making revenue so  you can have some mad money to leave dodge!!! NETWORK, NETWORK, NETWORK Join language clubs. Get a pen pal. And soon you will be seeing and experiencing sights beyond imagine!!!

check the links below for more stories and info about dating abroad:


http://www.clutchmagonline.com/2014/04/europe-single-black-womans-promised-land/
http://blog.blackwomenineurope.com/tag/new-york-city/

http://thegrio.com/2012/02/09/interracial-dating-should-black-women-find-love-outside-america/

 http://blog.blackwomenineurope.com/tag/new-york-city/
 
http://thanksforthefood.com/