Ride or die VS riding for yourself, who wins?

 

Remember that saying in the 90’s “ride or die chick” it was a contrived anthem to brainwash black women to stick with DBR (damaged beyond repair) men. Black men’s complaints of black women, and there are many is that black women do not support them. But when we are the ride or die chick what do we get in return? Let’s take a look:

Torrei Hart, Kevin Hearts ex wife stated that she was with him when he was selling sneakers and sunglasses to make a buck. She supported his dream to be a comedian not knowing if he would ever get famous. He married her and as his fame grew, he boasted that she was his rock. However, when his fame reached ultimate heights, he quickly dumped her and traded her in for a hybrid (a woman of ambiguous race, but clearly not all black) he could care less how comical he looks with a light bright amazon girl on his side. He never seems to question if a girl of her status would have been there for him like his ex wife has. He has the money, so he can buy an upgrade.

Torrei Hart loved Kevin and is still upset over the divorce but Kevin and fellow ride or die black women have ripped her apart deemed her as “crazy” and “desperate” negating the fact that the father of her children had broken a vow of love and devotion. 

 

Kim porter, professional girlfriend of Puff daddy had numerous kids with Puff, he never once purposed marriage to her.

 But he was rumored to purposed to J.lo during his 2001 trial. J.lo ran out of dodge and started her singing career, most of which was financed by puff. She traded him in for All American Ben Affleck.  For several years Puff went back to Kim Porter. Some may say that she didn’t lose out because she was cavorting with a millionaire. But pride is more important than money. It’s rumored that puff is planning to marry longtime hybrid Cassie. They have a 17 year age difference but if she is light, it’s alright!

 


Even Roots drummer questlove after the uproar over Iggy Azalea's compiled faux southern black rapper persona came to her defense when black women were insulted that black rapper T.I decided to give blond Iggy a shot when there are tons of talented black women with REAL butts and rapping skills.



 Even a fellow black guy 412 Audio commented on the story stating "I rather have Iggy then Nickis fake funky attention having fake ass coon" yes, a fellow black guy calling another black person a coon.

Funny, they did'nt  seem to like it when Mackelmore was burning up the charts with his hit "Thriftshop" apparently when non blacks threaten black men, its  a problem. When tables are turned, they could care less. Yet we still stand by them smh.

Too many black women feel the need to couple up with men that will destroy them. Beyoncé  could have picked any man she wanted but she picked the king of DBR men. Jay-z .The man who proudly states in a song that he has 99 problems but a bitch aint one. Guess who he is calling a bitch??? His ride or die Queen B.

Would anyone want to be with a man that states in the a song “ I cannot let these tears roll down my eyes, so I gotta let this song cry” this man cant even cry!!!! Sounds dangerous to me. Yet, poor b got brainwashed like so many others to think that being disrespectful and so called hard is what a man should be. So she rided with him. Contradicting her womanly anthems like “who run the world, girls” and “independent women” when having near nervous breakdowns at her recent concert. She change the lyrics in the song “Resentment”

The 32-year-old singer changed one very important lyric to the song "Resentment" while performing it live during the couple's On the Run Tour in Ohio Saturday.

While belting out the track, which is about a woman who was cheated on, Queen Bey sang "been riding with you for 12 years" instead of the original words "been riding with you for six years."

Now Beyoncé has been with Jay for, you guessed it. 12 Years. It is reported the reason Jay got his ass beat in the elevator by Solonge because he was flirting with Rachel Roy and also made a comment to her in the elevator when she confronted him. Stating “you some out of the hand bitches” so Bey, how is that riding or dying going for ya???

 

But there is light at the end of the tunnel. Eve who was the ultimate  ride or die chick, was with the rap click Ruff Ryders in the 90s she proudly sang songs about her devotion to thug type men with no morals. She even started the ride-or-die theme.  She looked like a man and acted like something straight our of a penitentiary. when she got into a contract dispute with the Ruff Ryder click she promptly left. And she took such a turn for the better. She soften up her image and decided to date out. After several romances with high profile men such as Shawn Penn, she ended up getting married to English billionaire, yes I said billionaire. Maximillian Cooper J They are stated to be very much in love and Eve has said that she has never been so happy in her entire life.

What black women of need to learn from this is that there is nothing wrong with being loyal to someone, but only to someone who is loyal to you! Black men have been using us for decades and cast us off when they have found something they feel as better. Let them be used by these women but we need to find mates not men who have no value in us but to make us baby mommas. We are not sperm receptacles but future wives with fathers for our children. Some of you ladies are waking up because songs like “these ho’s  ain't loyal” are being made. A song like that means “these women are not taking our shit” no we are not! 

DBR (damaged beyond repair) coined by www.interracialloveandspicebysara.blogspot.com

Eve's statement about dating IR:

 http://www.theybf.com/2013/05/30/eve-unlocks-her-lips-on-interracial-dating-female-rap-feuds-dmxs-substance-abuse