Now I'm sure the Pollymammies ( the term I have created to describe women that constantly defend people and situations that are clearly designed to go against black women) But this needs to come to the forefront. Everyone is all over Omari Harwick on the blogs. "He is so hot" " that is MY man" but how do you feel about Omari basically hiding his white wife and child? and why is he doing this???
First off, If he wants to marry a blue, orange, clear woman that is no problem of mine. He is a free man and has every right to marry whomever he wants. But he is a part of a trend of black men that profit off black women while at the same time they carrying on their ideal lives with women that do not attribute to their wealth. Maxwell got into a heated argument with this fans when they saw his instigram littered with pictures of white women. He lashed out at his fans for his decision. look at the link below:
Michael Ealy kept it a secret that he married a Persian woman and had a child with her for fear that his fans would lash out at him. Or rather, his main money source (black women) would dry up. He didn't bring his wife to the Think like a man after party. Nor does he ever mention that he is married and a new father. He is blatantly using people to fund his lifestyle. He looks like a deer caught in the headlights in this picture lol.
Taye diggs was known as the sexy young love interest in Stella got her groove back and several well known black romantic movies. He was always the romantic love interest for the black woman, making his black female women swoon, however, in real life, he is married to a white woman. They have actually split for now for cheating on her with blonds. I guess her dark hair was too much for him. lol.
Most of the black men in these shows and movies are not involved in relationships with the very black women that pay money to see their shows. We need to cut off the life line. Slavery has ended, but not for us black women. We are still supporting black men despite their constant hateful displays that they hate us! A month cannot go by without something that is hurting our image as black women. Look at the You Tube blogs, there are tons of channels dedicated to destroying our name. Tommoysontomayor is one of them. Its insane that we have nurtured and raised these men and they grow up as grenades to blow up the very foundation we created. When we get hurt. No one but us marches in the streets for our rights, but if one of them get killed or beaten, we are out in droves fighting for them. We cannot win. We wear weaves we are fake, wear our hair natural will look like slaves. Its time for us to stop fighting one another and uplift one another. If they love white women so much, they really should get their revenue from them. Stop supporting men that do not support you!
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Yep...Black women continually get the slip in the entertainment industry. Between Tyler Perry movies and other less than superior cinematic fare the concept of a Black leading man is just a heist. The heist is to get the money at the box office or tv ratings, bolster the popularity of the Black celeb who in turn plays possum with his personal life. They never show up on the red carpet with their non-Black wives/girlfriends and in return the average Black woman is left thinking just maybe 'the brotha' has a sistawoman in his real romantic life. Its all a scam and I don't see it discontinuing anytime soon. There is no Black or White its just green...the only collective is selective masked as diversity.
ReplyDeleteExactly Chele Belle. Tyler Perry is another bag of worms I will touch on in future posts. He tries to brain wash black women that they need to pray and date down in order to get a man. Its an entire conspiracy to put blackwomen in our place. But women like you and me know better :)
DeleteEven though we know Essence is owned by Time/Warner, the sad reality is that they continue to promote several of these entertainers to their readers. I don't know if it's the fake loyalty or stupidity that makes several black women support men who could care less about them. They'd do wonders for themselves if they would stop supporting these men who serve as no benefit to them.
ReplyDeleteSo sad! That's why MORRIS CHESTNUT remains my favorite. ..He's handsome and nice (I met him twice) and he remains married to a beautiful black woman!
ReplyDeleteLol and when one of those movies come out, BW be going crazy to go see it.
ReplyDeleteI would love for these black men to be in front of black little girls and women in front of their faces and tell them what they truly think about them. Black little girls do read and see what's going on. Sadly I'm sure they feel unworthy.
ReplyDeleteit is a sad state of affairs but the distain is blantant. hopfully black women will get it. they need to know that black men are not an option.
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